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Mind Body Connection; More than Just “in your head”

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As someone who has personally dealt with chronic pain, I understand the complex interplay between the mind and body when it comes to managing and overcoming this persistent issue. The term “mind body connection” is often dismissed as a new age concept or a form of pseudoscience, but the truth is that our mental and emotional states have a profound impact on our physical well-being, especially when it comes to chronic pain. In this blog post, I will delve into the science behind chronic pain and explore how treating both the mind and body is essential for finding relief.

Acknowledging the Weight of Chronic Pain

The journey through chronic physical pain is profoundly challenging, affecting every fiber of our being and every facet of our lives. As I navigated this path myself, I’ve come to understand the sheer magnitude of its impact. Chronic pain is not just a symptom; it’s a constant companion, shadowing our every move, influencing our relationships, and often dictating the pace at which we live our lives. It’s this unrelenting presence that can leave us feeling isolated, misunderstood, and sometimes hopeless.

Yet, it’s essential to recognize that while chronic pain may shape aspects of our existence, it doesn’t define who we are. Acknowledging the weight of our pain is the first step toward empowerment. It allows us to start understanding our experiences beyond the physical sensations, to see the broader picture of our health and well-being. This acknowledgment isn’t about surrendering to pain; it’s about a perspective shift.

When we openly acknowledge our pain, we break down barriers of isolation, creating space for support, understanding, and shared experiences. With all of those things comes haling. Coaching can help you achieve that because it encompasses the whole being, not just your tissue, or just your mind.

Understanding the Mind-Body Connection

Chronic pain does more than just hurt your body; it has a profound, often insidious impact on your mental well-being. This connection, intricate and powerful, lies at the heart of our health and is fundamental to tackling chronic pain at its roots. It’s time to peel back the layers and expose how deeply intertwined mental health and chronic pain truly are. Studies have consistently demonstrated that individuals grappling with chronic pain conditions frequently find themselves facing off against mental health challenges such as anxiety and depression. This isn’t coincidental. The link between our psychological state and physical pain is grounded in science, yet it remains underexplored and misunderstood.

Mental health and chronic pain feed into each other in a relentless cycle. Pain can erode your mental health, diminishing your quality of life and heightening feelings of despair and isolation. Conversely, a troubled mental state can amplify your perception of pain, making it harder to manage and treat. This dual relationship forms a critical junction that demands our attention and action.

The challenge before us is not trivial, but it is surmountable. By diving into the depths of this connection, we’re not just seeking relief; we’re striving for liberation from the shackles of chronic pain. The path forward requires a bold rethinking of how we approach our health, one that includes the physical and mental into a cohesive strategy. The journey may be daunting, but the rewards—regaining control of our bodies and our lives—are unparalleled. Don’t you want a future where chronic pain no longer dictates the boundaries of our existence? If so, a change in perspective is essential.

Pain is Always Real, Always

This understanding is pivotal, as it underscores the necessity of recognizing pain as a holistic experience that intertwines the physical with the psychological. Having experienced 20 years of chronic pain myself, I can tell you firsthand. Pain is real, even if it is produced in our brains. I mean, so is our heartbeat, and that’s real.

Imagine, for a moment, the sensation of pain as a complex dialogue between your body and mind. It’s not merely a physical alert system, signaling when tissue is “broken” it’s also deeply entangled with our thoughts, emotions, and past experiences. This intricate connection means that when we aim to address chronic pain, we can’t simply focus on the physical symptoms. We must also delve into the psychological aspects that contribute to and exacerbate our pain.

In my journey, acknowledging the multifacetedness of my pain—viewing it as a real and valid experience—was a crucial first step. My pain wasn’t an overreaction or a sign of weakness or a punishment, but a genuine plea from my body and mind for attention and care. This acknowledgment paved the way for a more compassionate and comprehensive approach to managing my pain, one that embraces both the physical sensations and the emotional and psychological impact. That approach led to my healing.

Understanding pain’s dual nature has also opened my eyes to the diverse strategies required to address it effectively. From traditional medical interventions to psychological support and alternative therapies, acknowledging the full spectrum of pain’s impact means exploring a wide range of treatments. This holistic view not only validates the multifaceted experience of those dealing with chronic pain but also highlights the importance of tailored, patient-centered approaches in facilitating healing and relief.

No Brain, No Pain – The Brain’s Role in Pain Perception

In navigating my own journey with chronic pain, I’ve been forced to grapple with a reality that seemed almost too simplistic at first glance. Without our brain’s involvement, pain as we know it simply wouldn’t exist. It’s a concept that feels both revolutionary and utterly fundamental. My exploration into the depths of pain and its mechanisms has led me to understand that our brain is not just a passive receiver of pain signals; it actively constructs the experience of pain.

Think of the brain as the conductor of an orchestra, with every section of musicians ready at their instruments. In this analogy, the instruments are the various pathways through which our body senses and responds to the world, including pain. With chronic pain it’s as if a part of the orchestra starts playing out of tune, sending discordant notes soaring through the air. The brain, as conductor, picks up on these notes and attempts to make sense of them, shaping our perception of pain.

What fascinates me is the sheer power of the brain in this process. By delving into the science, I’ve learned that the brain’s interpretation of pain signals can be influenced by a multitude of factors, from our emotions and past experiences to our expectations and fears. This realization opens up a world of possibilities for managing chronic pain. If we can understand the ways in which our brain modulates the experience of pain, we can understand WHY just treating the tissue is not enough to solve our pain problem.

The Brain on Pain – How Chronic Pain Affects Our Brain and Other Systems

I could dive deep down the rabbit hole on this. The mind body connection is very real. As are the changes that happen in our brain when we experience pain. Please remember our brains are highly changeable. This is not a static “always” condition, it changes and does not have to be a permanent state.


Here are the highlights of changes that take place in the brain of someone experiencing chronic pain.

1. Being in long term pain literally changes the structure of our brains.

Chronic pain reduces the volume of gray matter in our brains. Grey matter is the area of the brain which controls learning, attention, memory, thought processes, motor control and coordination. This means that chronic pain patients can have problems with memory processing, learning new things, keeping their attention focused on one task, thinking through problems and finding solutions. (This is not permeant!)The key here is that the longer you are in untreated chronic pain, the more gray matter is lost. Therefore the longer without treatment, the longer it will take to recover. 

2. Causes changes in the brain and nervous system, leading to amplified pain signals.

The neurochemistry within chronic pain patients is altered in comparison to those without chronic pain. Neurochemistry simply means the messages that are received and sent out throughout the body through chemicals and nerves. This means that the sensitivity of other seasons, such as sound and smell, can be increased.

3. Shifts the representation of pain from sensory to emotional and limbic structures.

(This is why tissue treatments are not enough and often don’t work. We are treating the wrong thing.) Scientists have discovered that in chronic pain patients, the region of their brain with regulates emotions is constantly active, even when other regions are more active. This can wear out this area of the brain and mean that it is not functioning optimally, because it’s not getting the rest it needs. This area of the patient’s brain is, “stuck on full throttle, wearing out neurons and altering their connections to each other.” Within chronic pain patients, their brain is always ‘noisy’. This can result in a reduced attention span along with problems thinking clearly and solving problems.

4. Increases activity in the thalamus, associated with the brain’s emotional center and linked to depression.

Low levels of serotonin have been found within chronic pain patients, as well as problems with how the body processes serotonin. Serotonin is a chemical which helps to keep your mood stable and gives you a general sense of wellbeing, as well as playing a major part in other bodily processes. Low levels of serotonin can result in mental health problems, digestive issues, problems sleeping, reduced bone health, reduced sexual function and even problems with your blood clotting. 

5. Hormonal Effects and the Endocrine System

Chronic pain has an impact on our endocrine system. Which is the system within our bodies that controls the hormones being sent throughout our blood stream. Hormones regulate a great deal of vital things within our bodies including metabolism, sexual function, growth, development, how we sleep, our mood, how our tissues function and more! When our endocrine system is unbalanced, it can have some worrying effects on our mind and body.

6. Increase in Stress Cycle

This is part of the mind body connection. Stress causes pain and pain causes stress, otherwise known as the pain and stress cycle. This cycle is a vicious one. Cortisol is the hormone we relate to stress. Excess cortisol increases inflammation. Inflammation helps drive pain and increases fear. Fear perpetuates this stress and pain cycle. Adrenaline is sent out in response to these high levels of stress. If you think about it, when you’re in that ‘fight or flight’ state, your body needs to prioritize certain resources to get you ready to jump into action. When these hormones are sent out for a prolonged period of time, your body thinks you are constantly in this emergency situation. In turn major systems are suppressed so the body can deal with the danger. Your digestive system slowing down is a perfect example of this. No one is supposed to live like this.

Depression, Anxiety, and Pain

Delving deeper into my journey with chronic pain, I discovered an intriguing overlap that shed light on the struggles I was facing – the intertwined paths of depression, anxiety, and pain. Through my own research and discussions with healthcare professionals, it became evident to me that these emotional states and physical sensations are not as distinct as I once thought. Using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) to peer into the brain’s activity, researchers have found that brains in pain, anxious, depressed and or addiction all look identical. The same centers light up, the same deficiency’s are found.

I find this astounding. It tells me that we must treat chronic pain differently. And we really need to stop rejecting anxiety and depression medication. So many meds are used for other uses these days. We really need to put the ego and other stuff aside and just try them and see if they help. I wish I hadn’t told my OBGYN to go to hell when he offered them. Oops. I know better now!

Understanding that the mind and body both need attention to heal is the biggest game changer you can make. It highlights the importance of considering medications and therapies that could simultaneously address the emotional and physical aspects of pain. It encourages us to look beyond the surface of chronic pain and to treat the person as a whole. Understanding this connection has not only expanded my approach to managing pain but has also fostered a greater compassion for the complexities of the human experience, underscoring the profound impact our minds have on our bodily states and vice versa

Navigating the Minefield of Treatment Options

In my quest for relief from chronic pain, I’ve ventured through what feels like a vast and sometimes bewildering landscape of treatment options. Each person’s path to managing pain is unique, and what works for one might not work for another. My journey taught me the value of open-mindedness and perseverance, exploring various treatments under the guidance of compassionate healthcare professionals who appreciate the intricate mind-body connection.

I started with traditional medical interventions, such as medications and physical therapy, which provided some relief but didn’t fully address the totality of my experience. This realization propelled me to look beyond conventional methods. This began my dive into neuroscience and pain. Understanding this mind body connection made me respond differently to my pain. It enabled me to explore and get curious.

Embracing the Mind-Body Connection Without Pathologization

I encountered many moments of doubt, where it felt like acknowledging the mental component of my pain somehow made it less legitimate, less “real”. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. Recognizing that our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations are deeply interwoven is not about finding a scapegoat for our pain; it’s about acknowledging the full spectrum of our human experience.

I learned that to heal, we must look beyond the superficial divide between mind and body. This doesn’t mean every ache and pain is a direct manifestation of our psychological state, nor does it invalidate our physical experiences. Instead, it opens up a path to more compassionate, comprehensive care that sees us as whole beings.

By stepping into this perspective, we arm ourselves with a more powerful toolkit for managing chronic pain. It’s about leaning into the complexity of our experiences with curiosity rather than judgment, exploring every avenue of relief without preconceived notions of what healing should look like. In doing so, we can forge a more nurturing, understanding relationship with our bodies and our minds, paving the way for true healing and resilience.

All the things I talk about in this blog are things I used to get out of pain. They are the things I teach about in my 6 month course, Moving Beyond Pain. I make the path easier for you to navigate, no woo. I don’t pathologize what is normal. The things I have covered in the blog are the science of what happens to our bodies and minds when we are in pain. It’s not abnormal. It’s not a disease. Frankly, I hate when it gets talked about that way.

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